Most of the sex experts out there will advise you to speak one-on-one with your lover to really figure out what she craves in the bedroom. The problem with this approach is that many women hold back what they truly want. This may be because they are a little shy about their desires, or they do not want to hurt your feelings. Read on to figure out what they really want.
2 Things Your Girlfriend Isn't Telling You in Bed (Read Now)
1. Oral Sex (Learn It)
My experience has taught me that women want a man who knows what he is doing during oral sex. What I mean is that most men tend to improvise when they are down there. They end up making sporadic movements which don't maximize pleasure for her.
In order to give her the best oral sex, a man needs to know how to build multiple orgasms simultaneously using the g-spot and clitoris. One of the best ways to learn this is by simply picking up a book on oral sex techniques. These will show you exactly how to maximize her pleasure during oral sex (the foreplay stage).
2. Dirty Talk
Most women want a little (if not a lot) dirty talk in the bedroom. I believe this is because they want mental stimulation as well as physical stimulation during the sexual experience. Remember that a woman's mental state is a critical factor in determining the amount and power of her orgasms.
With dirty talk, you need to be sure that you always start off slow and work your way up as she responds favourably to what you say.
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